“The soul always knows what to do to heal itself. The challenge is to silence the mind.” Caroline Myss To be perfect one needs to embody the traits of self-fulfillment. The first is unconditional selfacceptance, that is to be comfortable in your own skin, to accept yourself fully as you are. It also means to have realistic goals for yourself not too high not too low. By accepting yourself as you are, you realize that you deserve to get the same good things in life as everyone else. The second important trait is selfresponsibility, that is to taking responsibility for your actions, and responsibility for the choices we make. Along with that do not expect others to do, for you that you should do for yourselves. And vice versa don’t spoil others by being too nice let them do their own work. Work, chores help build character in an individual and shows them how to be responsible for themselves. The third skill to achieve self-fulfillment is to have respect for free-will. This includes respect your own free-will and to respect others’ right to use free-will. Accept yourself as you are. To accept ourselves as we are, is to strive to better any areas of our character and life that needs balancing. To be perfect it is important that we view ourselves as being perfect first. Respect for all life is doing no harm to others. Living a life of gratitude opens our connection to the divine, and forgiveness sets us free from karma and the burdens of our mistakes, leading us to a peaceful state of being. Living in gratitude opens the door to joyful living, abundance, and prosperity.